Red flags for dating a loser
“I purchased these movie tickets in advance because the movie was sold out, or selling out, everywhere.
Approximately 15 minutes into the movie, Vezmar’s date “activated her phone at least 10-20 times in 15 minutes to read and send text messages,” according to the complaint. Taking her car with her, his date decided to bail and leave him behind.
Incensed, Vezmar insisted that either she stop or leave the theater. His date, for her part, insists in a statement to the Statesman that “I had my phone low and I wasn’t bothering anybody.
That was an assumption she made, because she believes that those are the rules of the game. She’s taken advantage of someone else’s courtesy and generosity.” her to acknowledge him, respond to him and allow him to dictate the terms under which she’s allowed to behave.
Even when Tim League offered to comp him the price of a ticket, Vezmar didn’t accept.
One consequence of these “rules” is that all too often, women who advocate for their own safety or act on their instincts are told that their behavior is “rude” or “inconsiderate”.